What love is and isn’t

What love is and isn’t

I was reminded recently of the Christian Scripture on love (first Corinthians 13:4-7). Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in...
Love is immeasurable

Love is immeasurable

This month, I am considering the kind promise “I will love without keeping score.” When I love, I am wishing for the other that they grow and blossom into their own brilliance. I wish the same for myself. Imagine a world where we nurtured ourselves and...
5 ways to practice compassion

5 ways to practice compassion

“Compassion,” says meditation teacher Susan Piver, “is the ability to hold love and pain in your heart at the same time.” Andrew Boyd agrees. “Compassion hurts,” he writes, “when you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything.” He...
expand our us

expand our us

Who are we? Certainly not them! They think so oddly who do they think they are? How dare they? But wait don’t they feel the same way about us? So maybe we can go beyond us and them and expand our us to this roiling human yearning but why stop there? Mama polar...
malice toward none in 2020

malice toward none in 2020

We are emerging from a very contentious election in the US. I am saddened as people around me talk about the other side as though they are evil, ignorant, and not worthy of any respect. I recently read Abraham Lincoln’s second inaugural address, in which he encourages...