Forgiveness – turning toward and opening

Forgiveness – turning toward and opening

Kind promise: I will forgive with wild abandon I’ve been listening to Jon Kabat-Zinn on pain. He encourages us, as we feel uncomfortable, not to run away from it. Instead, he speaks of turning toward and opening to the sensations in our bodies. I use the phrase...
There Are No Shoulds in Gratitude

There Are No Shoulds in Gratitude

Kind Promise: I will appreciate blessings.  My discomforts shoulder their way into my consciousness.  They demand action and they want it right now! At their insistence, much of my energy is diverted into imagining how to fix and improve myself and, unfortunately, my...

Three Lessons on Love

The old saying is, “when the student is ready, the teacher appears.” Teachers of love have been appearing fast and glorious in the last few days. Lesson one: the Divine is the Source of love. I was feeling overwhelmed and unqualified [as I have been all...
In which I claim love as a superpower…

In which I claim love as a superpower…

I’ve been noticing, as I am paying attention to love, that lots of feelings of inadequacy are arising in me. I thought that, once I had identified it, it would go away. Unfortunately not. I want to be hugging and cuddling and exclaiming over people and, instead,...
What does  gratitude look like?

What does gratitude look like?

 Kind Promise: I will appreciate blessings. To appreciate my blessings means to feel gratitude.  (When I arranged my kind promises for the year, I chose this one so that it could coincide with the season of Thanksgiving.)  Yesterday, I asked myself, “what color...